As my 16th wedding anniversary approaches, I am reflecting on where I've been in my relationship with my husband and where I hope our...
My husband is a little obsessed with stars. Stars of Betelgeuse and North fame, not Bullock and Clooney. I don’t think he knows very...
Sex. For me, it's always been such a four letter word. Sex is seemingly simple, but it can bring up VASTLY complicated issues. It's...
Recently a former colleague of mine (and friend) emailed me out of the blue to tell me she was pregnant with her third child...
I don’t know what I’m doing. There. I said it… Are you happy, world???
This dad’s life is basically a series of hot messes that...
Yes, this may turn out to be one of those mushy blog posts - but I think I am due for one. Most of...
As you know, Mother’s Day was several weeks ago, and I am glad I didn’t write this article about my hurt feelings in the...
"The BVTMB is getting real this week about a sometimes taboo, but important topic...S-E-X! Our team is sharing the good, the bad, and the...
"The BVTMB is getting real this week about a sometimes taboo, but important topic...S-E-X! Our team is sharing the good, the bad, and the...
When I got divorced, learning how to talk about it with my son did not come easily.
When I first told my 10-year-old son about...
When I became a stepmother, I had been warned that parenting was the hardest job I would ever have, but also the most rewarding....
When was the last time you went out on a date with your partner?
If you are like me you have to really think about it....
Today is our 15th Valentine's Day together, and next month will bring our 14th wedding anniversary.
This has been a wild and crazy ride, to...
I love when my husband gets mad. He immediately screams, jumps on his phone to post something aggressive, writes a scathing letter to the...


















