As my 16th wedding anniversary approaches, I am reflecting on where I've been in my relationship with my husband and where I hope our...
Recently, I have had some serious conversations with friends of mine whose marriages are ending. These women have so much guilt about what their...
For some reason, this week, I felt Netflix calling my name. I saw all of the memes and witty articles going around and I...
My marriage is crumbling and it's like watching a car accident happen in slow motion. I don't know how, when, or what happened. About...
Dedicated to my friend, as she faces divorce.
Dear friend,
There is no realization quite like the sinking certainty that your marriage can not continue. The...
To write about love is ambitious. The topic has been explored through art and writing for arguably as long as humans have existed. Love...
"The BVTMB is getting real this week about a sometimes taboo, but important topic...S-E-X! Our team is sharing the good, the bad, and the...
You've heard it over and over, from your friends, from Cosmo, from your mother: Don't sweat the small stuff. But is this really the...
If you Google the phrase, “Sex after kids,” a quick scroll down the page reveals a list of articles and blog posts entitled, “Is...
"Do you plan on having any more children, Maria?" my OBGYN asked me from behind her surgical mask. "I realize this may not be...
When my husband and I brought our oldest son home from the hospital, I just wasn’t right. I didn't know at the time, but...
Today is our 15th Valentine's Day together, and next month will bring our 14th wedding anniversary.
This has been a wild and crazy ride, to...
When my husband first applied for an MBA program, we had just moved to Seattle, were newly married and childless. He was elated when...
Most of us are very familiar with the concept of “once you have kids, say goodbye to romance.”
No, I’m not talking about sex. I’m...

















