As my 16th wedding anniversary approaches, I am reflecting on where I've been in my relationship with my husband and where I hope our...
It’s 7:50 p.m. My children are asleep, soundly. My husband pulls a wooden cigar box out of the credenza in our dining room, an...
Before having children, I could have slept through a tornado. After our two beautiful daughters arrived, the sound of his slippers hitting the floor...
I’m not a big sports fan. I watch the Olympics, but not with any regularity. I tune into the World Series, maybe every other...
"The BVTMB is getting real this week about a sometimes taboo, but important topic...S-E-X! Our team is sharing the good, the bad, and the...
I love when my husband gets mad. He immediately screams, jumps on his phone to post something aggressive, writes a scathing letter to the...
My relationship with my mother is complicated, to say the least.
You see, she is a drug addict and has been in a toxic...
Honestly, I didn’t really think through the process of my teen son learning to drive and getting his license. Specifically, I completely ignored the...
It's been a while, hasn't it? And, I miss the fun adult time that landed me in this sexless desert. Amirite, fellow moms? Do...
Reserve your master bedroom for you and your significant other.
All too often, other uses enter your bedroom (office space, electronics, kids’ toys, etc.) and add clutter...
Having kids changes everything. It changes every aspect of your life and marriage, including sex.
After my second child was born, it took me...
My husband is a little obsessed with stars. Stars of Betelgeuse and North fame, not Bullock and Clooney. I don’t think he knows very...
February, the month that embraces Valentine’s Day, seems like a good time to reflect on how we show love and what we recognize as...
A popular saying goes that when couples marry, women think they will change their husbands and men think their wives will never change. Yeah…...


















